My darling mother [I use the term darling in sarcasm] out of nowhere Monday sent me an e-mail essentially saying that she and my father wanted nothing to do with me. She then followed that up with another e-mail basically calling me a worthless piece of shit, and saying that her one regret in life was giving birth to me.
Justin obviously thinks this shit cannot and will not fly so he told me to call her. I both called and e-mailed. No reply. Clearly she's trying to prove her point or some such bullshit, so there's not much else I can do.
At this point I hope she doesn't come up here at the end of June. I can't guarantee civility, and I'm pretty sure Justin wants to give her a piece of his mind [He already wants her phone number, which I will not give him...I have a feeling if he called her and let her have it, it would just add fuel to the fire.] and I have a feeling that in person that would not be pretty.
I expect this sort of shit from my father. But my mother? The person, who when my dad would say shit like that, would tell him to shut the fuck up and give it a rest. I can tell it was my mom who wrote the email because my dad doesn't capitalize anything.
Brittany thinks there's more to the story than I'm being told. I think that the redneck contingent in South Carolina has put something toxic in the air that's messed with her brain.
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Oh wow. Jeez.
I'm sorry you're going through this. I will keep you in my thoughts. Your name is Heather, right?
@Ritzypuffles - Indeed, indeed. And thanks Ritz =D
You are welcome...
There's always more to the story. Unfortunately, it can sometimes be as lame as the story itself. Don't worry, though, you're a smart girl, you'll be fine either way.
Wow... harsh... Sorry to hear about that.
Oh no! I can't believe your parents would do something like that. That's just sad.. I had a classmate of mine go though the same thing. I think his parents kept telling him that he had to pay for college on his own [his parents paid his brother's FULL tui, sucks] and that he had to move out as soon as he graduated/transferred. Something to that nature.
I'm glad that you're not giving Justin their # cus that would really fuel the fire..
Of course you are entitled to keep some information private 'cause it is your life.. if that's what you're saying at the end.
You can't erase them from your life [let's be realistic], but you can always move forward. :]
Plus, you've got Justin!
Best of luck!
@jesuismir - It's not so much keeping things private, but my friend Brittany and I were talking about this because she thinks this is uncharacteristic of my mother, and she decided that there's more to this sudden disowning than I'm probably being told.
Hey, sorry to hear about that. That is weird for your mom to do that. It was always your dad.
Good thing you didn't give Justin there number. It would not be pretty at all.